Ibasho in public space
Ibasho means: a place where you can be completely yourself. In Japanese, this doesn't just mean a physical place, but also an environment that accepts, inspires, and embraces you, exactly as you are. I think this is what we're looking for when we endlessly watch home improvement shows, constantly change the decor, and constantly buy new things. An ibasho, a 'sense of belonging.'
Ibasho in the outdoor area
In my book, I describe how to create such an ibasho for yourself, your family, employees, or clients. And while I'm working on that, I'm increasingly seeing outdoor spaces around me where an aspect of ibasho emerges. Small spots in the city, illuminated by the light, that, amidst all the gray and concrete, suddenly seamlessly connect with what makes us human. In this blog post, I'll share a few with you.
1. Safety

Wide streets, a sidewalk with clearing options, a clear view, and the ability to see far: these are examples of streetscapes that will evoke a sense of security for many people. It's said that this need for far-sightedness stems from the time when humans still lived in caves and caverns. Having a view could mean the difference between life and death back then. The presence of plants and trees also provides a sense of mental security: it calms your nervous system.
2. Suitability

Fit is about the extent to which a space aligns with how your body, senses, and brain function. In this gloomy, cobbled street in Paris, that fit seems remote. A deadly dull place to wander through. But for certain minds, there's definitely something to be gained here. The wall, with its many climbing options, encourages movement. And that's exactly what some people need.
Personally, I do much better with something like this:

No straight paths, but natural shapes, harmonious color palettes, clarity, and order without becoming rigid or boring. The interesting textures of the gravel and heather, along with the composition and harmonious colors, fulfill my need for visual stimulation.
3. Connectedness

A Parisian park, early in the morning. Countless chairs have been placed along the grass. Simply, without chains, without fear of being destroyed. These chairs serve an important function: facilitating connection, one of the aspects of ibasho. They invite you to sit comfortably, enjoy nature, and engage in conversation. And that aligns perfectly with the human need for connection.
You can also foster connection in a home, care facility, or school. This doesn't always have to be done by simply placing chairs. There are many ways to tap into that need for connection. I'd be happy to help!
4. Personality
Even when you're walking outside, you encounter things that are completely personal. For me, that's often poetry: poems on facades make me pause and reflect, which makes me happy and expresses who I am. Personality can be found in all sorts of things, from color choices to art, to the very practical: a place where you can pursue your hobbies.
